Talk about a major eye roll…Melissa and Joe Gorga’s rocky marriage will be a highlight of this upcoming season of The Real Housewives of New Jersey and we couldn’t be less surprised. As we prepare for the new RHONJ season to premiere this week, Melissa is speaking out about some of the conflict she and Joe find themselves in this year — and, shocker, she said that some of her marriage struggles may have something to do with her growing independence.