Sally Ride’s Partner of 27 Years Says Astronaut Gave Permission to Speak About Romance
Sally Ride’s most intimate mission was a private one.
Nearly 13 years after the ground-breaking NASA astronaut’s death, her partner Tam O’Shaughnessy reflected on their joint decision to reveal their 27-year romance to the world.
“Ten days before she died, I asked her how I should be to the public,” the 73-year-old told People in an interview published June 15. “I was holding sort of a public celebration of her life, and then a national tribute at the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C. And it was like, ‘So who am I?’”
Though many of their “friends and family knew” of their decades-long relationship, Tam still wanted to disclose their connection with earnest respect.
“She told me, ‘You decide what you want to say,’” the children’s science writer continued, “‘how open you want to be about our relationship.’”
Indeed, Tam took Sally’s words into consideration and announced their relationship in 2012, shortly after the astronaut—the first American woman to go into space—died following her battle with pancreatic cancer at age 61. She specifically revealed their relationship in Sally’s obituary at the time, noting “she is survived by her partner of 27 years, Tam O’Shaughnessy.”
A champion of Sally’s legacy, the Exploring Our Solar System author also accepted her partner’s Presidential Medal of Freedom award on her behalf a year later.
Until Tam confirmed their nearly three decades together, Sally had often kept her private life out of the public—although, her five-year marriage to fellow astronaut Steven Hawley was quite known. The former couple split in 1987, and it was that divorce that opened a path for longtime friends Sally and Tam to reconnect.
“We had a wonderful relationship from the time we were kids until we became lovers,” she noted. “I think it’s something to be proud of.”
In fact, the author offers more moments from their private connection in the astronaut’s documentary Sally, which premiered at the 2025 Sundance Film Festival in January and debuted on Disney+ June 17. And while she was honored to speak on her partner’s impressive accomplishments in the project, her death still sits with her.
“When I was describing my relationship with Sally, and especially when Sally got sick, I got teary-eyed,” Tam explained. “It just got me all the way through to my heart and guts, and that was a little bit of a surprise.”
While Sally left it to Tam to share their story, keep reading to see more celebrities who have come out over the years…
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The pro wrestler came out in a moving letter on Facebook, writing, "I truly have nothing to hide anymore."
The Empire actor cleared the air during a guest appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show.
The actress and supermodel came out as gay with her 2015 memoir, Straight Walk: A Supermodel's Journey to Finding Her Truth. She told Yahoo! Parenting that her 8-year-old daughter inspired the book.
The actor, who won an Oscar and a Tony for his role as the Emcee in the film and original Broadway production of Cabaret, revealed in a January 2015 People magazine interview that he is a gay man. He was married to a woman, former actress Jo Wilder, for about 24 years. They have two children, a son, James, and daughter and actress Jennifer Grey.
The YouTube sensation revealed his sexuality in a video titled "Coming Out." "This has easily been the hardest thing I ever had to do but I'm so happy that I'm doing it," he shared with his fans.
The Major League Baseball umpire announced that he was gay in an interview with Referee magazine alongside his husband, Mike Rausch.
The 51-year-old country singer came out in November 2014, saying, "I'm an out, proud and happy gay man."
The actress revealed she is a gay woman during a personal speech delivered at Time to THRIVE, a conference to promote the welfare of LGBT youth held at Bally's Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas.
Robin Roberts came out as gay in an end-of-year Facebook post, saying she she was grateful for "longtime girlfriend" Amber Laign.
The Olympic diver came out in a YouTube video, saying, "I'm dating a guy and I couldn't be happier."
The Biggest Loser personal trainer came out as gay to help contestant Bobby Saleem, who revealed he was struggling to do so himself with his father. "Being gay doesn't mean that you are less than anybody else," Harper said on the show. "It's just who you are."
Star of 30 Rock and Weeds casually broke the news of his sexuality to Out magazine as part of its annual "Out 100 list," saying he felt it was a "nice time" to come out, "especially on the heels of the DOMA and Prop 8 decisions."
The Prison Break star revealed his sexuality after being invited to attend a film festival in Russia. "As a gay man, I must decline," the 41-year-old said as the Russian government continues to voice their opposition against the gay community.
The star of Nickelodeon's Fred series revealed he was gay through a YouTube video. "I'm gay," he told his loyal fans. "It feels so weird saying it on camera!"
"I'm gay, and I'm happy. I'm very happy," the 29-year-old WWE star nonchalantly told a paparazzi at LAX airport in August 2013.
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The Argo actor first spoke about his relationship with artist Rainer Andreesen to blogger Greg Hernandez. "I don't really talk about it but everybody knows," the actor said.
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The former Sex and the City star came out on the cover of The Advocate. "I was like, ‘Really, we can just confirm?'" the actress recalls telling her publicist and manager before the announcement. "So that's what we did. It was so fantastic."
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