Theresa Nist may have received the final rose on The Golden Bachelor, but don’t expect her to sip margaritas on a beach in Mexico anytime soon — even if some of her franchise friends will be there.

The 70-year-old reality star, who found and lost love with Gerry Turner on season 1 of The Golden Bachelor, recently revealed why she won’t be appearing on season 10 of Bachelor in Paradise, despite being so close to joining the cast. Spoiler: it had absolutely nothing to do with the men.