I have been married a year and I feel a strong urge to run.

Hello. Has anyone ever been through this situation? I feel a strong urge to run from my marriage. I just can’t stand him anymore.

We are polar opposites. We knew it but we didn’t know how much it would affect us. I feel so miserable and so unhappy.

He is spoiled and hates helping out at home. Whenever he needs to do something he complains about it and throw temper tantrums like a kid.

He just want to sit around drink coffee and play games all day.

One shred of responsibility is welcomed with complains. He wants kids but I honestly don’t feel safe having children with him, because I feel like as an adult he does such a poor job handling the very little he is responsible for.

As a parent I will probably take on 200% of the load. I am so turned off and discouraged, I just want to run.

We had several conversations about his behavior. He acted like he wants to change, but that always last just 2 days. He will never grow up. I love him, but I can’t see myself living like this forever.

Is there a way to turn this around? I am honestly so close to throw the towel.