My wife tracks me using “find my phone”

Me and my wife are married for a long time now. I travel a lot for work and meet a lot of customers before covid.

That includes dinner meeting which usually run late. I have my iPad connected to the same ac as my phone.

In 2019, when I came home once after a dinner meeting , I saw that the find my phone app was in the background.

I have a habit of closing all the background apps when I’m done. I thought my wife must have accidentally opened it.

The same week I had another meeting, I came home and I found the app open in the background again.

So I started checking when the app is running in the background and it’s always when I’m out late or travelling. I decided not to talk to my wife about it since I don’t feel any good coming out of it.

P.s., I always tell her where I’m going, who I’m going with and try to keep her in the loop as much as I can.

Netizens’ comments

Literally, just talk to her about it. Be up front, hey I noticed that you are checking my location “how come?” You are in a relationship, you should be able to talk about it without games.

Some nights my boyfriend is late from work. Once he dozed off while driving home and ever since then when I see he’s particularly late home instead of bothering him by calling him (distractions while driving, if at work could get in trouble) I just check to make sure he’s not on the side of a road. Ik not everyone uses it for safety but that’s why we use it

My husband and I both use it. We use it as a safety tool and a way to know when to prepare for whatever it is we might need. For example if he’s not home when I think he should be, I’ll check and make sure he’s not stuck in a ditch somewhere needing help. He says he does the same when I’m out with friends.