Is it time to give up my marriage

Me (25) and my wife (27) have been married for a year now after dating her for 3-4 years (of which 90% of the time we stayed together). We both bought a resale flat and spent more than 150k on renovation and appliances.

Recently things hit rock bottom and we had a huge fight. It’s not the first fight we ever had, we’ve them every fortnightly but never this bad. Most of the arguments are about finances or chores.

We’re both working adult and are financially doing well. I was earning around 1.5 to 2 times more than her. Before we bought our house and a car, we initially agreed the cost base on our salary, while the car she can just make slight contributions to it since we both use it and that I’m okay with paying more for it. She agreed but after we got both the house and the car, she went back on her words. Things like fees, bills and cost of the house and appliances ended up are all being paid by me.

I do all the cooking, washing of dishes and cleaning of the house by myself, while she would be on her laptop watching Netflix. Whenever I ask for help she would get pissed off. I understand that maybe when she lived with her dad, her dad did everything for her, but I felt that this was our house and that she should contribute abit to the cleanliness.

Well anyway, after our huge fight, she stomped out of the house and never contacted me for a month, even when I was hospitalised and asked her to visit me, she never once asked how I was doing or visited me.

After I was discharged out of the hospital, I continued to text her and call her to no avail. I woke up at 5am, bought her favourite breakfast and waited below her block for 3 hours because her schedule isn’t fixed and I didn’t know what time she was working that week. When she saw me, she avoided me like a pest, even after I chased after her, she shunned me off and kept walking faster and faster without listening to me.

Her father chose not to interfere while her friend isn’t a good role model, and would often give bad advice like “don’t talk to him” and not sure if it’s worth mentioning but they would ask her to go on tinder and find someone better even though they knew we’re married. Worth noting that one of her friend is also a drug abuser.

I texted her telling her I would give her another month of time and space, if she ever wants to seek counselling I would pay for it and go together she she wants to. I haven’t gotten a response, neither did she respond to the counsellor or therapist message.

My parents have treated her like their own daughter, cooked for her every weekend, bought her stuff and took care of her. But never once was she appreciative of it and when I did my part to repay my parents by buying them stuff or giving them allowance, she would call me “mummies boy” etc. like what? I’m just doing my part as a son

I’m not here to look for empathy, I’m also not perfect. I won’t say I’m the best husband but I’ve tried my best and have always done what I can to make her happy which includes bringing her out to eat as much as I can, some months spending close to $3k on food. I just want advice on what I can do or should do. As much as I want to avoid divorce but if it’s something that can’t be avoided then it is what it is.