WOMAN STRUGGLING WITH 9 Y.O DAUGHTER WHO REFUSE TO STUDY, OR EVEN BRUSH TEETH
Singapore Uncensored·2024-03-26 19:11
Help , how to discipline an 9 year old girl
Am frustrated to the point I regret why I had this child .
She is so adamant . She don’t want to brush her teeth . Even if she brush , the white plaques can be seen in her front teeth .
When I ask her to brush again , only to end up in a stand-off for 1 hour and still I was not successful. All the while
Husband being a silent spectator either watching tv / phone – while I toil myself preparing breakfast / lunch
And when time comes to eating – she wants me to spoon feed her . If I don’t spoon feed , she won’t eat . If she eat by herself- then she will pick out the spinach and curry and only eat white rice !!!!
When it comes to study : she don’t want to try .
Next week the school starts and she will have checkpoint and revision . I have all the practice questions printed out and ready , yet this brat is not ready to sit down .
I just don’t know . I wish there is some boarding school for kids – to discipline them . Someone please help . Am lost.
If she don’t want to eat, don’t eat. If she don’t want to study, let her fail. She needs to learn about actions and consequences.
Need to bring her to check if she is under adhd spectrum. If not, you can find a kid therapist to check if there is some hidden psychological issues which she is unable to verbalize through words.
There is a thing called cane
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General X 29/03/2024
Teaching and educating children start at young until they developed a habit. Your 9 yo seem to be have been neglected in this field especially another party of the parent is just an audience only. It need both to work together in one accord instead of double standards.
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Teobehpio reply General X 31/03/2024
Good morning and has a nice day and good breakfast and thank for your information and is this our MOE system failure
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Ah-Fool 29/03/2024
Sometimes parents care too much until they tire themselves out. My friend’s kid only dine in restaurants thanks to the grandparents and his sister (who can’t give birth). So the kid hate kopitiam and hawker center. So my friend decided to detach the kid from his in-laws and sister and keep buying hawker food daily for the kid to eat. It’s either u eat it, or we throw it. No other choice. Kid put up a strong front for 2-3days and started munching. Beggar can’t be choosers. Learn from this.
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Teobehpio reply Ah-Fool 31/03/2024
Good morning and has a nice day and good breakfast and thank for your information and totally agree with this comment thank
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Shih Wei Yip 27/03/2024
I feel that you may have chosen the wrong baby sitter. She may have tell r gal this n that when I was age I didn’t study well buy I can earn so much this days . So a good baby sitter is a must
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Teobehpio reply Shih Wei Yip 31/03/2024
Good morning and has a nice day and good breakfast and thank for your information and should send to school if can afford it
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ROCK 27/03/2024
How this happen , does this happen jus overnight . For 9 years she is with you and how you brought her up . You mus be pampering her too much .
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Teobehpio reply ROCK 31/03/2024
Good morning and has a nice day and good breakfast and thank for your information and comments and hope is fake new
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damas ace 30/03/2024
this brat is ur daughter...calm urself down talk to ur husband parenting is 2 person not js wife husband bochap..talk to ur daughter in calm manner smtimes in frustation we tends to raise our voice reason with her pros con of nt brushing teeth,nt studying bt pls dnt say she will be stupid
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Good morning and has a nice day and good breakfast and thank for your information and comments and share thank thank thank
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