Women, Have Some Temper & Build Some Muscle

I am not sure about most women, but I myself came from a family (and having extended families) where women make most decisions and sometimes earn more than men.

In our household, we don’t look down on men, neither do the men look down on us. It is always almost equal.

First, lets talk about my dad.

I count myself one lucky daughter. I have never gotten any beatings from my father, for example. There was once he tried (cause he wanted to try out a new cane he just bough to smack my younger brother, Lol).

Guess what? I smacked him back, with the same cane. xD That’s how much self-respect I have.

I’d always topped the class & was well-liked by my teachers and relatives. I am independent with my own opinions and my dad has always been proud of me.

In marriage, I have my own temper.

I remember years ago, there was once when I argued with my husband (because his mum stirred sh*t), he got so agitated he grabbed an object & threw it right on the floor to vent his anger.

Keeping in mind my mum’s teachings (never let anyone bully you, including your husband), I threw my phone on the floor to vent back, smashing the screen and losing some contacts in the process.

I don’t care. No one messes with me. So what if you’re my husband, my MIL?

Still not enough? I flew a chair across the living room, at his parents house.

His mum stared in awe, just like this:

Probably feeling good inside because me & my husband arguing. And then she *smirked*, how typical.

Interestingly From then on, my husband never initiated any arguments with me.

Why? Cause my son started to mimic what we did (i.e. throwing things..) That’s when we decided.. No one shall ever throw things around again! xD

After that incident, my husband also got me a new phone to replace the one I destroyed.

Of course, my husband has no 小三 , at least not that I know of. If I ever found out he has one, Ah… good news, I can finally go for 小五 or 小王。Fair enough, right x)

The lesson is: DIL stay away from toxic MIL, and live happily ever after.