Just how much do we really know about seemingly normal and high achieving peers around us? You never know how someone truly is until you sit behind one on the bus (not going to say which bus) and observe her phone right behind her.

A lady wearing long sleeves and long pants (v conservative) boarded the bus with a laptop in her arms, like any random university graduate.Then as she took out her phone, with that super large screen, I saw more information than I should.

She logged into her gmail and I could see from behind that all the emails are from “sugar book” and almost all of them are about sugar daddies. She scrolled down frothed and the whole screen is filled with sugar daddy stuff.

She wasn’t searching explicitly for such information, it’s her default view whenever she logs into her personal mail. There wasn’t even anything advertising in nature or any newsletter she subscribed to. It’s all sugar baby sugar daddy emails.

Next, I saw her log into her work stuff and I could see the name of her company. A really elite and reputable big bank in Singapore. I didn’t see what she talked about on that app but she didn’t stay on that app for long, before she SWITCHED BACK TO BROWSE ABOUT SUGAR DADDIES.

She logged again into her Instagram and from what I saw, her feed was super normal, not about anything luxurious or extravagant. No designer bags, no overseas holidays, no sexy photos, just a plain and Ordinary person?

Then, she logged into her posb online banking app. I could see that her registered name is the same as her Instagram name, and she has only $600 left in her account? That’s a healthy amount, right?

I started googling her name from what I saw. Yes, it led me right to her LinkedIn page, same company, same name. Looks very high flier, doesn’t look fishy at all!

And I scrolled to see that she used to be from a top jc and she’s the same age as me!! I’m not from her elite jc, but I do seem to know a fair bit about her from her PUBLIC social media and LinkedIn profiles.

I’m just asking, why would a professional from a top tier bank (probably from management associate programme) want to be a sugar baby, and how come she only has 600 dollars saved in her savings?

It doesn’t make sense. I know not al sugar babies offer s*x, and almost all do not, but why?