Greta Lee’s star-turning performance in Celine Song’s romantic drama Past Lives rightfully has a lot of audience members thinking about love—but what about Lee’s own love story with husband Russ Armstrong?

The two, who have been married for nearly 10 years, first met as students at Northwestern University, and they have since welcomed two children together. “Raising kids with a partner is a gamble,” Armstrong wrote in a Mother’s Day Instagram tribute back in 2019. “When you start dating someone in your 20s you’re generally not considering whether they can whip up a rocket out of a cardboard boxes. No parent is perfect, or very good, at first. I’m not. But I feel like I hit the lottery with you.”