Ryan Gosling showed up to the 2024 Oscars tonight accompanied by three close family members: his mom, his sister, and his stepdad. But once again on this year’s award circuit, we did not get an appearance from his wife, Eva Mendes.

Despite our disappointment, it’s really no surprise that Mendes was not part of the red-carpet family gathering, as she and Gosling have walked only one red carpet together: in 2012, when they attended the premiere of their film The Place Beyond the Pines.