As much as we hoped, wished, and crossed every finger and toe for a Zendaya-and–Tom Holland Oscars date, it was just not in the cards tonight. The Euphoria star made her appearance at Hollywood’s Dolby Theatre solo.

Though understandably disappointing for Tomdaya fans everywhere, who were looking to enjoy some adorable red-carpet moments between the sweetheart couple (ahem: me!), Holland’s absence isn’t much of a surprise. The Crowded Room star was not nominated for an Academy Award tonight, nor was he slated to present or perform. In fact, Holland has attended the Oscars only once, in 2018. (Zendaya was also present that year, but they walked the carpet separately and had not been romantically linked yet.)