Colman Domingo has had quite the banner year, with major performances in The Color Purple and Rustin, the latter of which earned him an Academy Award nomination for Best Actor, thanks to his stirring performance as civil-rights and gay-rights activist Bayard Rustin.

But besides his slew of high-profile roles, Domingo has also been in the news lately because of a recent visit to The Graham Norton Show, where he retold the story of how he met his husband, Raúl. Domingo’s romantic story quickly went viral, and fans have become obsessed with the couple’s serendipitous connection. Now, we can’t blame them if they’re aching to know more.